This Patreon is the bridge between where the medical system stops and where real survivor life begins. It’s the resource I wish existed when I was lost, isolated, and convinced no one could understand what was happening inside my brain.

 

Survivors use these videos to find the language to describe their experience to doctors, family, and employers. Caregivers use them to understand what their loved ones cannot articulate. I give people permission to simply BE.

 

This resource speaks the language of lived experience — because it was built from it.

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WHAT’S INSIDE

 

• 150+ TBI Survivor Experience videos — categorized by topic: rage, brain battery, neuro fatigue, caregivers, compassion & grace, coping skills, re-injuries, trauma/PTSD, memory, and more

• The Seven Pillars News Letters

• Navigating TBI: A Lived-Experience Resource Guide — therapies, supplements, brain-healing technologies, neurofeedback, apps, books, and support groups. Honest reviews of what worked, what didn’t, and why. Backed by peer-reviewed research.

• The 11 Phases of Brain Injury Guide

• "I'm Ready to Face the Mirror" — raw, vulnerable interviews about TBI’s true impact on my loved ones’ lives

• "Breaking Barriers and Building Bridges" — TikTok Live discussions with Erika Brouillette, host of The Real Lives of TBI Wives

• TBI Butterflies podcast — healing conversations exploring the survivor experience

• A curated neuroplasticity playlist — 3 years of music selected for cognitive reframing and emotional regulation

• Standalone wisdom collections, inspirational memes, podcast and TV interviews, and a growing community of survivors supporting survivors

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Are you looking for a life coach & consultant who can help you navigate life's challenges and make productive decisions?

 

I am here.

 

As a TBI survivor I have the skills and wisdom to guide as an empathetic witness for you on your journey.

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I can help you identify symptoms and traumas because I had to identify them for myself and then heal them.

 

I am  a certified life coach with extensive training and experience,  With certifications in Suicide SAFEtalk, Suicide A.S.I.S.T, Greater Good Science Institute @ UC Berkeley on Social Emotional Learning, Yale, The science of Well-being, Mental Health First Aid Certified and Instructor, I am equipped to help you achieve your goals.

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E-mail Me: JLalli@DecisiveLife.org

Subject: TBI LIFE COACHING REQUEST

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This can be offered as copies of my book, "Bull-i-ed: it begins with the 'I'", a single presentation, in-person 3.5 month prevention program, and an online version that incorporates much of the 3.5 month in-person program. The data doesn't lie and the responses from the students are substantial. Please reach out to discuss your needs and how I can help. 

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